Something Magical occurs when single ladies gather. It is almost as if we are connecting magnetic forces drawn to eachother or pieces of fabric woven together by one common thread-non commitment.
This weekend, some single ladies (and my bestie, the engaged one) went out to celebrate a friend's 27th birthday. We decided to keep it low key and went to paint pottery then dinner. The dynamics in conversation were almost night vs.day with those I had experienced weeks earlier with my coupled friends and I loved it!
However, as the night went on and we ranted about how "there are no single ladies for us to hang out with!" it struck me; In all of our social circles there are significant amounts of single ladies just itching to get out like us. Instead of wasting our time complaining, we should be celebrating our freedom and joining forces. So, in 2009 although it is already 12 days in, I vow to unite the single ladies in my social groups and create new memories to tell our children ( or maybe not tell them, depending on how embarassing it is!)
This weekend, some single ladies (and my bestie, the engaged one) went out to celebrate a friend's 27th birthday. We decided to keep it low key and went to paint pottery then dinner. The dynamics in conversation were almost night vs.day with those I had experienced weeks earlier with my coupled friends and I loved it!
However, as the night went on and we ranted about how "there are no single ladies for us to hang out with!" it struck me; In all of our social circles there are significant amounts of single ladies just itching to get out like us. Instead of wasting our time complaining, we should be celebrating our freedom and joining forces. So, in 2009 although it is already 12 days in, I vow to unite the single ladies in my social groups and create new memories to tell our children ( or maybe not tell them, depending on how embarassing it is!)
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